Did you have safe words when you were under the care of your parents?
Same reason applies here. You either trust daddy or you don’t. If you say stop, I’ll know if you mean it or not.
Safe words are such a cop-out and tell me that you aren’t submitting totally.
Stay away from any dominant that says you don’t need a safe word.
For reals. And look at it this way, parents that abuse their children are punished. Doms who abuse their subs should be too. Not giving your sub a safeword turns your relationship from fun and consensual into abusive and manipulative.
Meh, you’re all stupid.
I don’t usually respond to provocation, but I’m seriously considering leaving tumblr if the ddlg community has strayed this far from the original intent.
The point isn’t that I can hurt my little as much as I want, it’s that a daddy should know the limits and learn them in a careful and responsible way.
Ddlg is about power AND trust, anyone who says otherwise is either a selfish girl or a fake daddy. Safe words circumvent both of those.
I completely understand what you mean and your mentality on this.
Littles trust their daddies and daddies should know the hard boundaries their little has. But every BDSM relationship should have safewords, even CG/l, because boundaries change every day.
For example: the boundaries I have on good days are different from the boundaries I have on bad mental health days. I still like to play around with daddy, but I don’t ever want to go as far as daddy may want, so safewords are good for use then, even if I have talked to daddy about it beforehand.
hey i was browsing the ddlb tag and saw your post abt telling your daddy about your gender identity and how you haven't seen any daddies with little boys and i just wanted to share w you that i am a genderfluid baby boy and i have a daddy and i just sorta wanted to share with you! :333